I printed out this whole long post, sat back and waited, and no answers. Then I spotted the how-to post, about removing the alternator and it gave me all the info I needed! Tried to delete and I couldn't.
I looked thru my stuff here and don't have any more grommets that are any good. I still can't believe I just threw the tracking info in the last trash pickup, I have never had this happen. Hopefully the package will show up, all torn and shit from being misplaced. I just had that happen with fuel filters. They were mailed about 100 miles from me and took 2 weeks from the shipped date. I am truly sorry.